Monday, March 11, 2013

Louisiana-dog sitting, house sitting, painting, and eating

Hello again friends :)
Here we are in Jackson, Mississippi, but I'm getting ahead of myself! First we have to leave Alabama!
On Wednesday, February 27th, the McTigue & Kilbourne families arrived in Foley. We spent a good chunk of the day helping them unpack and get settled in and then it was off to church. I taught the kids that night. I just had the Snow kids but we had so much fun! I love those little guys. We made paper & rubber band guitars and they put on a show for me. It was super fun!
On Thursday we prepared to leave. Kristine and Stephen had a goodbye dinner for us so we helped a little bit in the preparation and then went to hang out with our new friends, Jesse, Becca, and Kegan for some tea, curry, and as always, great conversation. Then it was back to Stephen & Kristine's for an awesome night! We introduced everyone to the game of fishbowl and the girls won because we were more awesome and then we played Quelf! Always a good time to be had at the Underwood residence. :)
On Friday we tentatively planned on leaving around 11, but here's how our day went instead:
8:30-10:45 laundry
11:00-12:30-lunch with Stephen, Kristine, & Mallory at Lambert's, home of the throwed rolls.
12:30-Jesse's house for one last good-bye coffee date
1:30-post office
1:45-church to drop off chairs that we borrowed
2:00-back to the house to pick up our game that we left
.....and then FINALLY off to Louisiana! This trip definitely forces you to be laid back. I'd flip out if I was 3 hours late for something, but I have a pretty lenient boss. :)

The moving truck!!!


Some of the cutest kids ever! 

my feast :)

saying goodbye to our friends: 








So we got to New Orleans in the evening, it was almost dark. First order of business: find French Quarter, park, walk! If you've never been to New Orleans, let me tell you a little bit about it. I imagine we thought the same thing about it that many foreigners think when they first go to Hollywood. The only thing you can think to say, and you do, every time you turn your head is, "What the heck?!" There are so many weird, crazy, awesome things to see there. So we parked & started walking towards the heart of it and we came across this guy named Giro who was homeless & asked for money for coffee. Instead of giving him money, we took him down the street and got him a cup. He said that he was a believer and sounded like he knew what he was talking about, which is awesome. So we talked for a few minutes and then continued walking. We came across a shop that didn't have crude t-shirts hanging all over the place, so we went in to look for postcards. As we were checking out, Marc asked the cashier how his day had been going and that turned into a discussion that lasted about 40 minutes about life, New Orleans, and most importantly, God. Unfortunately, we were finally interupted by people who wanted to buy something, as if we were in a store or something. Sheesh. :) So on we walked when we came across another guy who asked for money, this time to feed some kids. So we started walking with him to McDonald's so we could get some food and he kept thanking Marc so finally Marc told him that we were doing it to show God's love. And here we go. Then he stopped in his tracks and put his hands together and was thanking Jesus and said that he believes in God. So Marc asks him, "What are you doing out here drunk then man?" "Why not?" he asks, "God put it here for us to enjoy so why can't we enjoy it? Tell me why." So the conversation continued on with Marc trying to answer him and continually being cut off by the dude saying, "God put it here for us, tell me why I can't enjoy it. You're ruining it for the rest of us." The weird part is that he was quoting a nice amount of scripture. Marc started to say something about Israelites and then he flipped out even more saying, "Oh no, you're Old Testament, I'm under grace. I'm not under the law, I'm under grace now. Don't talk to me from the Old Testament, show me where it says it in the New Testament. Man, you are ruining it for the rest of us." Again, Marc started trying to tell him and then he gets down on his knees and tells Marc, "Come down here!" So Marc gets down with him and he starts going through Jesus' crucifixion asking, "Do you believe that Jesus did this and that." I don't remember his exact words, at least until he asked about Jesus' skin being ripped off, at which point he started grabbing at Marc and pulling at his sweater. Talk about a bizarre experience man. Of course, Marc agreed, so then the guy gets up and by this point he's yelling about grace and the Old Testament. Then he says, "Man, I don't even want your food," then cusses us out and walks away. It was SO WEIRD!!!! And really sad that someone can be so side tracked on issues and what they want to do rather than just following the Lord. We shouldn't be focusing on furthering our agenda if our agenda isn't the gospel or productive towards the gospel.
Moving on from there, we walked around for a bit but it was getting later and so we started walking towards the van. On the side of the road there was a couple of street kids sitting with a sign so we stopped to talk to them. The guy is only 23 and he's from Riverside! Small world! We talked to them for a little while and then continued our trek to the van. After about a block, we came across a group of 5 or 6 people praying on the street corner so we stopped again. They were a group trying to raise money for a missions trip to Jamaica by singing on the corner. Sweet! As we were talking to them, there were a couple of guys hanging nearby listening, so afterwards we talked to them. It was an interesting experience-he knew scripture very well and said that he was a believer so I have no reason to believe that he wasn't....except the beer can in his hand and the 6 empty ones on the ground. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that a Christian can't have a beer, that's not the point I'm trying to get at, but it also isn't the image a Christian should be representing. If our lives are to be used to bring others to Christ, why would we want to put forth that image? Does it bring glory to God or pleasure to ourselves?

And then finally we were back in the van and off to Walmart to sleep.
On Saturday morning we headed back to the French Quarter. We had been previously advised to go to Cafe du Monde for beignets (pronounced ben-yays) and coffee, so we did! And it was CRAZY packed! The line to sit outside was obnoxiously long-probably 50 people! So we sat inside which I'm not sure was a better choice but it gave us more time to walk around later.





my cafe au lait & our plate of beignets :) mmmmmm

the workers hustlin!

We walked around for a little bit in the market place where TONS of vendors set up and then headed into the Cathedral across the park. It was really windy out so we decided to sit inside and have our studies there rather than try to find somewhere outside & be freezing. After a little while, Marc leans over to me and says, "I think I'm supposed to open air preach," to which I responded, "  .         .               .            .            .       . .              .              .            .        .           in here?!" "No, no, outside!" Phew! Man, I wasn't sure how to handle that! But since it was outside, I was totally cool with it. So out we went. He stood on the stairs, silently for a minute and then started with, "Excuse me, do any of you need hope? Do any of you need love?"  and went on to share what God has brought him from and done in him. The whole thing only lasted a few minutes with nothing really going on. One guy about 20 feet away yelled, "Shut up" once and a few people stopped here and there to listen but that was about it. Although, the few tables of tarot card readers sure did hear the gospel. :)
We walked around for a little while more but after we had a couple conversations and seen what seemed like endless street performers, we wound up back at the van and headed out for Baton Rouge, the capitol of Louisiana. We hadn't really planned on being there until Wednesday but we figured why not just get there a little early. We hit up some friends we had there & let them know we were on our way so we made plans to meet up at church the next morning. And that was our Saturday!


some of the "what the heck" moments: 
this (above) is a transformer!
see!

this awesome Cathedral that we saw

and the inside of it was pretty!

Marc open air preaching between the cathedral and tarot card readers

French Quarter!

this big weird character!

We saw a ton of musicians! 



a bridal party second lining it 
(apparently that's what it's called when you walk
down the street in a huge party)


Sunday morning we woke up to a text from a mutual friend that said "I don't know if you've heard, but Brittany & Daniel had their baby last night!" Wow! What timing! Baby Julian was born at 2:28 am at 33 weeks. Because he was a little premature, he had to stay in the hospital and of course, Brittany and Daniel spent most of their time there with him. We were really excited for them and just figured we would stay in the van rather than with them. No problem at all! But then they called us and told us they still wanted us to stay at their house so we headed over to walk the dog. The next day we waited all day for their furniture to be delivered and set up. It was a nice day to chill and catch up on projects!
Tuesday morning we were at the church at 8am to paint the bricks on the building. The pastor, Mitch, had been wanting it done for quite some time but because he's a working pastor, he just hadn't had time to get to it yet, so we were happy to do it for him! There were a total of 355 bricks (according to his count). So we worked on it for 8 hours and got just over halfway done! We were pooped!
That night, Pastor Mitch and his wife Melissa treated us to dinner at Dempsey's, a southern food restaurant. Marc had his first fried crawfish po'boy and I had a fried chicken one. Turns out a poboy is basically a sub. But don't get me wrong, it was delicious!
The next morning, we finished painting the rest of the bricks. Man, let me tell you, painting bricks is tedious! You have to get all the nooks and crannies without wasting too much paint. It was nice to work side by side with Marc all day. :) That night we had dinner with a couple that we had met on Sunday, Johnny & Faith. They are a super awesome couple with an adorable little 6 month old. After dinner, we headed to church for their prayer meeting. It was a very nice, intimate group.
On Thursday morning, we headed back to Faith's house for crochet lessons! I tried to teach her & Melissa how to crochet, but I'm not sure that I can explain things very well. Either way, it was a good time of fellowship and hanging out with new friends. It's funny to compare how easy it is now for me to hang out with new people as opposed to 2 years ago. I never really saw the need to branch out, so I didn't really. I accepted people who came along, but I had good friends and didn't really see the need for new great friends. Now I am almost forced to make new friends all of the time and I love it. I might go crazy if I didn't, although it does make it hard because I hate the idea of never seeing most of these people again. At least, not until we get to heaven. Anyways, so that was that! Afterwards, Laura, another girl who was there, offered to treat us to lunch so she, Faith, Deacon (her 6 mo), Marc, and I headed out to a delicious lunch! After great conversation and a yummy sandwich, we headed out to the state house for our usual tour and then for a walk at their outdoor mall. We were looking for people to witness to and also looking for the perfect ice cream and/or coffee shop. It was our 3 year anniversary that day so we wanted to relax and hang out for a little bit. Instead of doing it at a coffee shop, we got ice cream, got a movie with our free redbox code, and then went back to the house and hung out with each other. It was the perfect night!

Painting the church


we started being a tad silly with the paint....


my fried chick poboy!

our 2nd day of painting.
We forgot to take a before picture so this
is as good as it gets. :)

and after!

us & Johnny & Faith

Mitch, Melissa, & Faith's baby, Deacon

Statehouse!

"I can't hear you. la la la la la la la la la."

the view from the top of the statehouse

for our anniversary dinner, Marc heated up leftovers for me :)
and lit a candle!

AND he did the dishes. What love :)

Ice cream and a movie! Sweet! Happy anniversary to us!


The next morning, we made breakfast for Brittany & Daniel as a thank you for being so awesome! And then they put us to work! Marc painted a baker's rack while I painted a shelf and in between did laundry. Because the baby came so early and unexpectedly, there was still a lot to be done! Including all of Julian's laundry! So I spent a good chunk of the day washing, sorting, and folding baby clothes. I can't even tell you how many times I must have said "aaaaaawwwww look at this!" It's crazy to believe that these clothes are for humans! They're so small!
Later that night, Mitch and Melissa came over and brought crawfish with them! Marc was super excited to have an authentic Louisiana experience! It was kind of cool, he brought them in a bag then they put a huge piece of cardboard down on the counter, dumped them out, then went to town! I tried a bite of them and it wasn't bad (or good lol) until I got to the end and felt/heard a crunch. Then I got grossed out and couldn't do it so I had pizza while everyone else chowed down on crawfish. It's just too weird to me to eat something that is looking at me, although I will say, if I had to pretend to like it, I could. It wasn't disgusting, it just didn't really appeal to me. 
We did learn something interesting for you to remember if you ever go to Louisiana....or a crawfish boil. If their tail is flat, that means they were dead before they went in the water and you shouldn't eat them. Interesting. 

we made breakfast for Brittany & Daniel, our gracious hosts :)

our breakfast of choice: chilequiles





that's Marc, sucking the juice out. sick.

the aftermath, or as Daniel called it, 
"the crawfish cemetery"

Brittany, Willow, Daniel, Marc, Benny, & me
(p.s. I love that corgi! he's adorable!)

And that was it for our time in Louisiana! Stay tuned for Mississippi!
We're trying to get back to one week per state so I should be blogging more. Of course, if the Lord has us to stay places for longer then that's fine, just telling you our plans. :)

Monday, February 25, 2013

Sweet (feels like) Home Alabama

Here we are again, an obnoxiously long time later.
So leaving Florida, we pulled over to get some gas when we were still about 2 hours out of Foley. As we got back on the highway, there was a man who was hitchhiking, so we picked him up. I don't really know why...he didn't look like a crazy person so I hoped that meant he wouldn't kill me and/or eat me. Obviously I'm typing this, so I'm still alive. Long story short, he was pretty boring but very appreciative of the ride. It's a bit of an unsettling feeling so I don't plan on making it a habit, but it was interesting nonetheless.
We finally made it into Foley, dropped off our friendly resident hitchhiker, and headed over to Stephen & Kristine's house! Yeah! We planned, as usual, to be in Alabama for one week and four weeks later, here we are!
Since we did hurricane relief in New Jersey, the focus of our trip has unintentionally shifted more towards service than evangelism. While we are always looking for opportunity, Foley is pretty small and doesn't exactly offer ample opportunity to engage the masses. Our first few days here, we got started on those pesky chores that need to be done & nobody wants to do! (Or nobody has time to do.) Chore #1: touch-up painting at the church. We sanded down big chunks of drywall in the bathroom and then repainted it, then did touch ups all over the place. Mission accomplished.



Calvary Chapel Fellowship of Foley

sanding & painting the bathroom  

the dust left about after sanding down 3 walls!

Moving on from there, it took us a few days, but we weeded out the front flowerbeds and Marc cut down a few trees & pulled up a few bushes.
digging out a bush....

digging out a tree...

the terrible task of weeding this (by hand) took a few days.
I swear, Satan must have created crabgrass. 

the aftermath


Other tasks throughout our time here included:
-cleaning the house of an older gentleman
-cleaning the church
Marc helped Pastor Joe put up shelving for the coming food bank:



 helping to set up for the Valentine's Day Dinner at the Senior Center:

 Putting together cabinets (just 2) to later be installed at the church:

And then helping to install them: (I didn't help with that....I crocheted.)


This one is pretty sweet! We turned this:
into this! Pretty sweet right!?


and found these little guys:

 And a few other tasks here and there. :)

Just to backtrack a little bit, when we were in Florida, we went to the pastor's conference for the evening session. One of the pastors was speaking and one of the first few things he said was, "It doesn't matter how you begin, it's how you finish is what matters". The moment he said that I knew, at least for now, the trip was to be continued. We weren't done yet. Since Georgia in early January, my mind & heart have been in a constant struggle against themselves, wondering if its time to go home. It always comes up for a reason, whether small or large, and I always give into the ponderings because I miss home. More so than I miss home, I miss life. I miss having a life and a job and a paycheck and projects I can work on it I want to. So when we were in Florida, I heard the pastor say that and I knew we weren't done. Throughout that study, God was showing me how disobedient I had been, and deep down I already knew it. I knew that my heart wasn't in it anymore and as much as I wanted to go home, I needed to be loyal to what God wanted me to do and at this moment, I wasn't. I could think of nothing worse than doing the trip when I didn't want to and getting to heaven and not "getting credit" for it because my heart was wrong. Before I go on, forgive me if I sound like a broken record. I know I speak often of wanting to be home and what God shows me through it, but that is what I'm going through and so I share.
Back to the conference, as the study went on, I realized how terribly wrong I was. I was trying to rush through the trip so I could be home quickly. I was putting my time limits and my stipulations on God's task instead of just being obedient to His call. I was just doing my time. And I was convicted.
Getting into Alabama, I tried to keep in standing with my newest change of heart. Of course, I could rush through and leave promptly at one week because that will get me home just before my god-daughter's first birthday. Seeing as I missed her birth, that is pretty important to me and yet, I must leave it in the hands of the Lord. And then came Alabama and a new challenge. A house! Of course, not our house, but the idea of a house. Because of the lack of people here, we've spent a lot of time taking care of things around Stephen & Kristine's house. We don't have very much, but we can be of service, and so we do, in hopes of blessing others. Anyways, back to the house-when you don't have something that you want (a normal life) and then you're around it a lot, it's not hard to desire it and so my longings came back with a vengeance. At this point, I knew in my heart we weren't going home, but I still prayed to know God's will for the small chance that He would tell us to go home and then I could have my life.
Of course, here we are, still on the trip. My point in all of this is the lesson that I learned.
After Florida when I heard from the Lord , it was much easier. I was content to continue the trip-God had given me passion for it again. Over the next few days, I was fine but then after that, it started coming up again-that pesky feeling of life/home/babies/etc. The first few times I prayed and asked God to help me with the feelings, but slowly, I stopped. I had expected it to be easy, but that isn't how God wanted it to be. It's better for my relationship with Him if He keeps me dependent on Him. Just because I want these desires to go away, doesn't mean they will. I have to actively be giving them to God every time they come up and not let myself give into them. Needless to say, I didn't do that this past time. I let my day dreams take me over, but God is faithful to keep me close to Him and remind me of what is important. Ultimately, what I want is to serve Him, it just amazes me that He still is so faithful to me in my fickleness.
On a lighter note! We spent Mardi Gras here! I was terribly afraid when we got here that we would be leaving and traveling through New Orleans on Mardi Gras. Yes, it would be a great witnessing opportunity, but as much as possible, I'd like my husband not to see what goes on there, know what I mean? It's interesting to see how people here celebrate it so much. People actually have the day off for it. Not for President's Day, but for Mardi Gras. Schools are closed down even! We got to go to a good, clean parade where they threw out beads and candy. It was actually a whole lot of fun!




Awesome! The Jesus float!




I must say, that we have had an excellent time here. The food has been great! The company has been amazing! Its been so fantastic to be here with friends, to be able to be ourselves and not have to worry about  getting to know people or making sure we don't leave the wrong impression. Stephen & Kristine have been so flexible in hosting us. We got here and said that we'd be here for just about a week and it just kept getting pushed back....and pushed back....and pushed back! And still, they treat us like we've just been here for a couple of days. We've been karaoke-ing a few times, and played many games together. I love these peeps!

Karaoke!!! 

Kristine & Stephen!



Game time! :)








me & Marc :)

Mallory singing to Sarah in Quelf


A sweeeet little swamp we found in a park!

(complete with koi fish)

(and turtles)

and a kitty! I named him Ignacio. :)

That seems to be enough of an update for now. We did meet some interesting characters on the way, but that is a topic for another blog. We are planning on leaving on Friday morning. Tomorrow (Tuesday) the McTigue family is due to arrive so we'll spend most of Wednesday unpacking them and Thursday saying our goodbyes. And then we're off to New Orleans and state #29! That's particularly exciting because that means we only have 19 states left! It's crazy to see how small that number is and to look back to a state like Texas. We felt like we had been on the road for so long and it was only state #6, with 42 left. Imagine that! And now we're down to almost 19.
As much as I would like to be home, I'm sure once I'm there for a while I'll miss the vagabond life. To everything, there is a season. I guess we'll see what God has in store for us.
Thanks for reading my blog :) It means a lot to know that people keep up with us.